Frequently asked questions


Where is the venue?

Approx 15 mins from M5 Junction 23. Full directions to the exclusive Manor House setting will be released 48 hours before each event.

Due to the location of the venue we do not allow taxi pick up or drop off. If you purchase a ticket only option you will need to be happy to drive away that evening. 

How do we get an invite to one of these parties?

All tickets are issued by invite only. We will need to have chatted to you via your fabswingers page & seen face pics before we will consider party attendance. The parties are in high demand as the quality of our guests is of such a high standard, we will not compromise other guests by allowing non vetted couples to attend.  Our events are approximately every 3-5 weeks - Keep an eye on here or on our fabswingers events page for latest updates. 

Can singles attend?

No. These parties are strictly by invite and are targeted at hot MF couples aged 25-40 only. We do not invite single men, women or 'buddies' as we believe this can alter the dynamic.

What shall I wear?

Unless the party is advertised as fancy dress the usual dresscode is men smart, and women sexy! Think wine bar attire for the start of the night!

Most ladies tend to wear dresses early on in the night and then get changed into something a little more or less comfy later.

If you book a room you have the benefit of arriving from 8pm (6.30pm if a superior room) and getting ready on site before heading down to the bar.

For ticket only guests that wish to use the pool, hot tub, sauna or steam room during the evening we have a supply of fresh towels poolside.

Do you sell alcohol?

No. Please feel free to bring your own refreshments. We have a bar area where you can chill your beers in the fridges or mix up your own cocktails - We've got all the other bits you need: glasses, buckets of ice, straws etc!

What is your cancellation policy?

To deter time wasters we now operate a policy of the rooms being non-refundable if notified of cancellation less than 3 days before the event. 

Should you cancel before this time we will do our very best to sell your room so that we can refund you less a £25 cancellation fee to cover PayPal costs & our time trying to resell your ticket.

Sadly the “party ticket“ portion of any booking is non-refundable. Again this is to deter time wasters.